It’s high time I defined what it is that I want in a man. I have spent plenty of time in self-discovery and identifying who I am and what I stand for, now to flesh out what I hope to find….
Tall as or taller than me. Must be comfortable if I’m 5’11 or 6′ in heels
Willing to dance without cajoling or being intoxicated. Comfortable in his own skin.
Extremely vast and eclectic taste in music
IQ of at least 130 or greater. As smart as I am or an intellectual peer.
Quick thinker, excellent wit and able to dish it out and take it. I want mental friction! Able to playfully joke and get under my skin
Keeps me in check. If I’m out of line, says so. If I need a verbal smack upside my head, dispense.
Integrity and faith. Christian with a strong moral compass. Able to make decisions under pressure without breaking.
Mr Command Man. From Debi Pearl’s book. Driven, focused, motivated towards his own goals a LEADER in the home who can rely upon me to be a comfort to him in times of difficulty. Sense of self and desires.
Doesn’t have to be a talker, but able to speak, have a vocabulary and carry on intelligent conversation
Wants to travel. Joie de vivre, not materialistic to the point of acquiring debt for appearances. Can live within means.
Embraces not only me and my flaws, but my children and wants to be a positive male influence in their lives.
Healthy and cares for himself, not looking in the mirror 10x/ day narcissist, but not 30lbs overweight and “should do something about it after this pizza n beer”
Not an addict. Speaks my love languages. Able to give and receive love.
I will define more later